Best Friends
Hmmmmmmmmmm.... not sure how to start this but the past few days have been a roller coast ride on these two words "Best Friends" after my new bride “J” posed that question.... who are your best friends.? I could not believe that I couldn't answer that question easily yet before our marriage, I thought I had an over ‘flowing cup” when it comes to best friends or close friends. I was shocked too when it came to really thinking about it this time round. I realized that the people I called my best friends, I didn't really see them score the 100% best friend mark yet I still questioned myself if my standards for a best friend are too high or I expect too much from a people I could truly call my best friends. After almost 30 something years on this planet earth, I thought I “had this in the bucket” already. Oh boy!! Oh boy!! Was I wrong or wrong!!? I learnt the hard way that as your achievements/goals in life are attained, so do the friends you have aro