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Redundancy

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What does even that word really mean?? Does it spells out that’s the end of the road for you or that you have a terminal disease... I kept thinking to myself! Yes you’re the man of the house, yes you have a family of your own, yes you have debts like anybody else, and yes you have lots of dreams and plans for the future. And now here you are made redundant!   You try and put on a brave face for the start but even that, later starts to weather like a flower receiving no sunlight or water. That's when you  think to yourself.. How F**k you really are.   You pray and fast and go to almost all the pray places your told to go with no quick fix like you hoped for in your mind. You forgot that even a planted seed has never germinated over night.... there you realise that only your faith and hope can carry you through this downtime in your life as you struggle  to get back on your fit and be the man you know you can be.   The other only way to beat the gloom is live each day at a

HOW ARE YOU?

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I personally can’t begin to comprehend how these days   I   detest anyone asking me this question as we all carelessly,   unknowingly   use this phrase every day, every second of the day around each other. Because if truly   I   were to tell them how   I really am !   They   will   not   be able to handle it or   may   just run off…………  Let me try breaking it down for you, yes you keep asking …HOW ARE YOU? Life happens, you find yourself almost 40 years old, jobless, businessless, and with no steady income of your own, and yet you have a young dream-filled wife and child to look after, and   an   elderly mother who always looks up to you to bail them out   each time they need some financial help   or   the time they can't easily reach their children abroad. What the hell is going on?   How did I get here? I had a promising job, bought a nice car, met a lovely girl and married her, set up a home, and everything was rosy. Where did it all go wrong?   This little voice i