Redundancy

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What does even that word really mean?? Does it spells out that’s the end of the road for you or that you have a terminal disease... I kept thinking to myself!
Yes you’re the man of the house, yes you have a family of your own, yes you have debts like anybody else, and yes you have lots of dreams and plans for the future. And now here you are made redundant! 

You try and put on a brave face for the start but even that, later starts to weather like a flower receiving no sunlight or water. That's when you  think to yourself.. How F**k you really are. 

You pray and fast and go to almost all the pray places your told to go with no quick fix like you hoped for in your mind. You forgot that even a planted seed has never germinated over night.... there you realise that only your faith and hope can carry you through this downtime in your life as you struggle  to get back on your fit and be the man you know you can be. 

The other only way to beat the gloom is live each day at a time and put in the effort of trying to find some sort of income, even though no one believes how hard your trying because their not the fly on the wall when your sending those applications, making those calls and when your anxiously waiting for reply from a job application you know so well that you can excel at. They can hardly imagine. 

The true faith test here is purely mental endurance and whether you truly and honestly believe  that their is such a thing as God's own timing irrespective of all the effort you put in to stay out of being redundant. 

No matter how you feel during this wait, get up and be grateful that you have another chance at not only life but to change your trajectory in life. Stay focused and this is not the time to feel sorry for your self but to think out of the box and slow down enough to hear God’s guidance or voice in whatever your next move should be.


By Alpha Eddy 22/03/18  
#TUFTS #Faith #Doyoubelive

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